Marriage in the United States is still popular! Over 90 % of young adults aspire to marriage--although recently, many would-be married couples choose cohabitation instead.  And, according to Dr. Andrew Cherlin at John Hopkins University, Americans have one of the highest rates of romantic breakups in the world. Why?

There are probably many causes for this trend. With greater personal affluence in the United States comes greater choice--in work, where to live, lifestyle, and even in partners. Adults also have a greater sense of entitlement. We want to have it all- career, family,... Read More

“To err is human, to forgive is divine” Alexander Pope, English Poet, Born 1668  

Today marks the beginning of the Jewish New Year, Rosh Hashanah, which culminates in 10 days on Yom Kippur, a day of atonement. It is a time to reflect on the past year, and to look ahead to the New Year. What do you want to develop in yourself? How do you want to be? In Judaism, the slate between you and your maker will start anew. But, whatever unfinished business you have with others is up to you to mend.   

It is one thing to acknowledge your mistakes and failings, and to “make amends” to... Read More

This fall, thousands of 18 year olds will be leaving for college. It’s a huge transition for young people—adjusting to living away from home. But it’s a major life change for parents too. We have spent 18 years caring for, nurturing, and watching over our children. And, while our role as a parent has constantly changed as they have grown, they have always been under our roof.

I remember when both of my children started kindergarten—another big life event in our parental life. On that day, tears came to my eyes as I turned them over to the educational system.

I brought both of... Read More